Values: The Key To Developing Your Character

By Kelsey Simon


Values are what you believe in, or feel strongly about, and they also play a key role in developing your character. The sum total of everything you value becomes your value system. Values is a very important factor in helping to develop your character.

Your parents share their values with you, just like their parents shared their values with them. As you interact with people other than your parents, you adopt other values as well. As you mature and grow, you'll notice that the things these influential people care about and consider as important are for the most part the same things you care about.

Family members, babysitters, teachers and others all help to shape your character by sharing their values with you. For instance, your parents may not like gardening, but your aunt who lives in the country loves to garden. While visiting her for the summer, you begin to appreciate and value gardening.

Based upon experiences and interactions, we come to value different things. For example, some people value a college education; some a trade or career. Others value staying at home and raising a family. Some value sports, while others value art. There are as many different types of values as there are people. No two people are alike, not even members of the same family.

In some cultures, women choose to dress in garments that do not show their form. In other words, they place value on female modesty. While in other cultures, there is value placed upon objects of art and physical beauty. This is an example of how what we value can be affected by our culture and religion.

If you live in an environment with a lot of crime, your safety and the safety of your family will become an important value. Even though there are many different factors affecting what we value, we can be sure that all values help to shape our character.

People from all walks of life, rich or poor, big or small, young or old, share some of the same basic concepts of moral values. A moral value is like a line that divides wrong behavior from right behavior. Moral values are shared by all people regardless of culture, religion, or environment.




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