Attracting Love With the Law of Attraction on Valentine's Day

By Sharon R. Upchurch


One of the most often asked questions is "Can you attract a specific person using the law of attraction?" The good news is Yes you can absolutely attract a specific person in your life in a relationship you choose and with success.Love is the most important emotion of all in this entire universe. When it comes to money, jobs, and so many other things people don't really have that much difficulty in manifesting. In matters of the heart if you don't get what you want the pain is maximum. The one you love, that specific person, is the most important person for you, and even the entire world cannot substitute for that person. Now I have absolutely great news for you today. Yes, you can attract that specific person you are in love with. So today allow yourself to be absolutely elated and just follow the procedure below.

If you'll notice the question above which asks about relationship attraction and the very next question about difficulties in attracting lasting love, you'll note that the problem lies in the question. And most of us do this without even noticing. You're probably asking yourself right now: "What is she talking about"?

What's holding most people from attracting their love relationship is that in the very next thought they think what's wrong with me. Let me make this more graphic by example. Cynthia is a client of mine who wants to meet her love match which whom she can build a life. She wants to have a family and her career. So Cynthia is very clear about what she wants. And in the same conversation she tells me about how worried she is because she's getting older. She doesn't have that much time to start a family. And wonders if she really can juggle career and family successfully.

Have you figured Cynthia's primary problem in attracting love? She has expressed what she wants and in the next statement countered her desires by sending signals of what she doesn't want. This happens so often for most of us, we hardly notice.This is where you need to look if you're one of the singles who haven't had lasting love attraction success. Find the incongruity in your thoughts and feelings. Keep your attention on what you want. Watch for thoughts that take you down the path of anxiety, frustration, low self-confidence, and dread.

Love others the way you want to be loved. To create strong vibrational alignment with the relationship you desire, love others the way you want to be loved. Unconditionally, without reservation, openly - however it is you want to be loved - offer it to someone else. It's another powerful way to create alignment, and guess what - it feels good too! Finally, let go of what's not working in your life. In order for good things to happen (like getting the love life you want), you have to feel good. Eliminate what's bringing you down; stop putting up with the things you're tolerating. Whether it's a job, bad habit, apartment, relationship - whatever doesn't feel good needs to be remedied. Creating a vacuum in your life allows the Universe to fill it with something better. This action item alone can open the window of opportunity that allows an avalanche of good things to come your way!

While the above techniques were to get you out of your pit of desperate feelings and make you feel like a winner so that positive thoughts and feelings came and made you realize whether you wanted that person because of love or because you wanted to satisfy your ego. In many cases the desperation to get back isn't because of love but because of a sense of conquest. So now you know in your heart whether you truly love the other person or not. If its love go forward else just allow the Universe to deliver the best vibrational match for you.

Love - the power behind creation.Understand this. Love is THE most powerful energy in the Universe. With love you can create anything, win anyone's heart, mind and soul. Every day for at least 10 minutes sit down and send loving thoughts to your loved one. Imagine you already have a relationship with her. Your lover loves you completely. Now what kind of loving thoughts would you send to your lover.

It really is that simple.All relationships are mirrors of our own self- love.So how do we attract love? By loving ourselves first.This can be an incredibly challenging endeavor for most people. They have no clue where to begin. And it is not an uncommon problem. I find it everywhere I go.One of the biggest problems in the world today is a lack of self-love. Once you learn to love yourself, you have the ability to be compassionate and caring toward others. Until you love yourself, you don't really have the capacity for compassion. If the lack of self-love is at the core of your life that will be reflected back to you every one you meet and in every thing that you do.

I think that's why people struggle for the best house, the best clothes, the best car, the best body---because there's something missing on the inside.Having all these material things are great---but if you seek them to fill the hole inside, you'll find that hole is really a black hole that continually consumes everything around you. It affects and warps the energy field of everything in your life.There's only one thing that fills the black hole within and it is self-love. There's no magic pill you can take that can fix it, but if you pay attention, apply your consciousness and start to love yourself first, watch out, because your life will change for the better.




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