There is one thing that runs through your mind when you have to deal with breaking up with your girlfriend, even if you don't want to admit to it. That thing is, you wonder if you are going to be able to ever find love again. That is a pretty universal fear and it is one that guys just don't talk about with other guys. Yet, if you don't acknowledge that you have that fear, it can severely limit what happens down the road. It can make you jump into a new relationship with the wrong woman a little bit too quickly and it can also make you feel like going back to an old girlfriend, all because you are afraid that you won't be able to find love again.
This is because of the amazing way our brain or more importantly our subconscious works. Our subconscious mind can not tell the difference between reality and perception, true life or make believe. Basically, what we focus on or ask ourselves manifests in our life because of this process. For example, have you ever driven yourself crazy trying to remember something that you knew you knew, given up on it and then woke with a jolt at 2 in the morning with the answer? This is because your subconscious never gave up and kept "going through your brains files" until it found the answer!
That doesn't always mean that it is going to be easy. It doesn't mean that you are going to just forget about her or that you are not going to have moments where you feel like you want her back in your life. All it means is that you have to keep your eyes on the reality that you can find someone else.
So what really is the problem? Are you too ugly? No way! Way more physically challenged people than you have managed to find love!:) Do you have a bad job? Do you smoke? Do you drive a crappy car? Are you too poor? Are you too tall, short, wide, thin?! Are you too successful or not successful enough? Do you stutter? Are you an amputee? Is your skin bad? Do you have a funny accent or a lisp? And the reasons people give themselves for not being able to find love goes on and on and on. The thing is that all the "reasons" above plus the thousands more are all DEAD WRONG! Yep! Every single one of them.Unless you are the only one on a deserted island or in some other solitary confinement there is only one reason why you are yet to find love! You are not emotionally open to finding love. Simple as that.
If you are distressed and lonely and wondering will I ever find love again open your mind to new possibilities. Invest into new programs or change what you are doing now. It makes no sense to expect different results if you continue on the same path. If you want to find true love, be open to trying different things."Will I ever find love?" is a question that has been asked by people since the beginning of time really. Love is a need that every person should want fulfilled. The problem is that a lot of people across the world aren't exactly sure about how to find it.
At other times we can lose this ability to love due to fears about what the future may bring or a painful past. Additionally, no matter how much someone may at one time love you, if you cannot fully love them back, the relationship is doomed. In these cases people often find themselves in difficult and emotionally draining situations or find the whole process too hard and simply give up on relationships.If this has previously been you or you notice some similar behaviors, it doesn't always have to be this way.What you need to do is start to change the world by filling your own life with the kind of love other people find intoxicating, attractive and irresistible. If you are open and honest with others, you will find that you start connecting with people in ways you may previously have thought impossible. Living your life in this way will show you love that you once thought only existed in fairy tales!
However, It is not always that easy to just turn on the love and live with "an attitude of gratitude" is it? You need to be able to clear away all the negative thoughts, patterns and beliefs that you already have and replace them with the exact opposite. That is where the amazing technology of brain entrainment comes in.With binaural beats and isochronic tones, these spectacular recordings alter your consciousness and stimulate your brain using deep Theta and Alpha states that put your conscious and subconscious mind into such states that ensure your mind, body and spirit is ready to find love.To answer the original question "Will I ever find love?" Yes. You can.
This is because of the amazing way our brain or more importantly our subconscious works. Our subconscious mind can not tell the difference between reality and perception, true life or make believe. Basically, what we focus on or ask ourselves manifests in our life because of this process. For example, have you ever driven yourself crazy trying to remember something that you knew you knew, given up on it and then woke with a jolt at 2 in the morning with the answer? This is because your subconscious never gave up and kept "going through your brains files" until it found the answer!
That doesn't always mean that it is going to be easy. It doesn't mean that you are going to just forget about her or that you are not going to have moments where you feel like you want her back in your life. All it means is that you have to keep your eyes on the reality that you can find someone else.
So what really is the problem? Are you too ugly? No way! Way more physically challenged people than you have managed to find love!:) Do you have a bad job? Do you smoke? Do you drive a crappy car? Are you too poor? Are you too tall, short, wide, thin?! Are you too successful or not successful enough? Do you stutter? Are you an amputee? Is your skin bad? Do you have a funny accent or a lisp? And the reasons people give themselves for not being able to find love goes on and on and on. The thing is that all the "reasons" above plus the thousands more are all DEAD WRONG! Yep! Every single one of them.Unless you are the only one on a deserted island or in some other solitary confinement there is only one reason why you are yet to find love! You are not emotionally open to finding love. Simple as that.
If you are distressed and lonely and wondering will I ever find love again open your mind to new possibilities. Invest into new programs or change what you are doing now. It makes no sense to expect different results if you continue on the same path. If you want to find true love, be open to trying different things."Will I ever find love?" is a question that has been asked by people since the beginning of time really. Love is a need that every person should want fulfilled. The problem is that a lot of people across the world aren't exactly sure about how to find it.
At other times we can lose this ability to love due to fears about what the future may bring or a painful past. Additionally, no matter how much someone may at one time love you, if you cannot fully love them back, the relationship is doomed. In these cases people often find themselves in difficult and emotionally draining situations or find the whole process too hard and simply give up on relationships.If this has previously been you or you notice some similar behaviors, it doesn't always have to be this way.What you need to do is start to change the world by filling your own life with the kind of love other people find intoxicating, attractive and irresistible. If you are open and honest with others, you will find that you start connecting with people in ways you may previously have thought impossible. Living your life in this way will show you love that you once thought only existed in fairy tales!
However, It is not always that easy to just turn on the love and live with "an attitude of gratitude" is it? You need to be able to clear away all the negative thoughts, patterns and beliefs that you already have and replace them with the exact opposite. That is where the amazing technology of brain entrainment comes in.With binaural beats and isochronic tones, these spectacular recordings alter your consciousness and stimulate your brain using deep Theta and Alpha states that put your conscious and subconscious mind into such states that ensure your mind, body and spirit is ready to find love.To answer the original question "Will I ever find love?" Yes. You can.
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