It's Time To Understand NLP

By Lan Thomas


Neuro-linguistic Programming or NLP is process in by which individual try to attain their self actualization through communication. This is the mental programming in skill development in tackling real life experiences. Goal planning goes through various processes before thr actual implementation.

The reason why people behave and act the way they do is what NLP is all bout. The fear of failure in life makes people thing and act towards a projected better life. No one dreams of a bad life in future. It is in this context that people fear failures but embrace success. NLP helps in balance the two; failure and success while on the other copying what other are doing.

Those who strive to dig deeper in understanding NLP usually get stuck between studying the whole concept or just some part of it. It becomes more complicated and confusing as you dig deeper to understand what it means in real life. In a nutshell, the programming helps people imitate or ape others successes and avoid failures. The human brain is very selective and only chooses what is easily achievable and avoids risks.

People like experimenting before implementing a fact that is internalized in human brains. Once there is some green light of success, the brain communicated to the individual and that is how people act or make decisions. Superstars are many people's role models and we do not look at how they have achieved what they have but only see them for what they are at present. The processes that catapult them to stardom tend to be in background when we want to associate with them.

The programming through NLP looks at what one has achieved and does not concern itself with how the goal was achieved. The process of arriving at a set goal or perfection is more important in life than just finding yourself at the top. Imitating other and doing what they do does not make you equal to them. You need to go through the entire process to be the same as they are or even better.

The most pronounced NLP skills that are used in this subject include and not limited to improvement in the art of persuasion to improve how people work and this entails coaching, counseling and therapies as well. NLP helps in creating acquaintances through comforting and building confidence in each other irrespective of whether they know each other or not. It is also seen as an art of creating confidence verbally, for better functioning of teams to achieve a higher goal either at work or in life.

The brain programming does not mean that people do not thing or function independently when making decisions. The process involves a lot of imagination and it differentiates the creative individual and the less creative. When people get ideas in their mind, they look for channels to communicate the same to others and this is one of NLP functions.

The way our minds are programmed enable us influence others according to what we think is right. When these thoughts are translated to verbal communication, we try and get value on the information. NLP shapes our verbal techniques for us to be understood and understand others.




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