Steps To Build Self Esteem

By Nurettin Buitenkamp


Low self esteem is often caused by the lack of confidence or value of one's self. You see, loving yourself is the only best way of building self esteem and confidence. You might think that this is a conceited type of love and care. But, actually, it is not. It only suggests that you need to accept everything about yourself, whether it is good or bad. But in so doing, you should never bring yourself down.Positive self-esteem can provide lots of helpful benefits to every aspect of a person's life, particularly on his family, career, relationships, social life, and inner health or morale. There are some people who highly value their career but not their social affairs. And there are people who feel most secure and confident when they are around self-assured people. This is in view of the fact that they are usually obvious and their actions are consistent.

Here are few tips to improve self esteem.Stay positive and upbeat: Thinking you are not capable, or you are not worthy are signs of having low self esteem. Have a positive outlook and believe yourself.Cherish your every achievement and reward yourself for them.Much like how you shouldn't brag about yourself, you shouldn't decline appreciation and honor. You are honored and appreciated, because you are worth it! Accept it gracefully.

Never think about your problems and brood over your past. Move on and have a positive outlook, so you can change your future.Understand your powers and limitations. It is good to be positive, but you should know where you stand in life. Never be over ambitious or think about things that aren't viable and be depressed over it. Use your powers and win over your limitations.Challenge yourself every now and then. Change is one thing that's constant and when you adapt yourself to different situations, you can become a better person. This way, you can also know your hidden potentials.Don't compare yourself with anyone, who above or below you! You are what you are! There's no photocopy of you. Remember, you are unique and special. By comparing, you can undermine yourself. You might not be the best rapper, but you will probably be good at something else. So don't compare yourself with others.

Celebrate your achievements.No matter how big or small, if you get something done, celebrate! Tell people about it. Achieving small steps is the key to success. There is nothing wrong in blowing your own trumpet. This will also put you in a positive frame of mind.Use your strengths.Everybody has strengths. Regardless of what you do or what kind of person you are, you have strengths. Focus on what you're good at doing and what you like doing the most. Nobody is good at everything, but everybody is good at something.Love yourself.When you look in the mirror you probably start thinking negative thoughts straight away. To build your self esteem you first need to stop hating yourself and start loving yourself. Only once your mind is at ease will it start to accept the notion of improvement.Let go of the past.The past may have had a major impact on your life so far, but how long are you going to let it affect your life? If you choose to move on, you can at least start creating a happier future for yourself but it has to start now. You don't have to forget the past completely, just respect yourself for coping with it and understand that you need to move on.

Forgive your mistakes and work towards being a better person. No one is perfect! Instead, learn from your mistakes.Be confident, never over confident. Believe in yourself and strive to better yourself every moment. Never put yourself down, for anything or anyone.Remember to have fun! Life is short, so make the most of it when you can. It is never wrong to have fun! Enjoy life and be happy!

Self esteem is a concern that virtually everybody needs to come to terms with. Some individuals know that they have to deal with self esteem while others handle it without really understanding it. Those who handle self esteem subconsciously have a much harder time because they do not really recognize exactly what it is that requires to be worked on. They are merely responding to issues that they experience on a day to day basis. Nonetheless, if you wish to work on your self esteem in a more constructive way, you must keep the following techniques on the best ways to improve personality in mind.

Be supportive. Make sure your spouse knows they have your full support. If someone else is criticizing your partner, you need to defend him or her from this. The relationship between a husband and wife is supposed to supersede other relationships. You need to stand by your spouse fully and show total support.Be respectful to your spouse. Don't be a doormat but do show respect. Use words like please and thank you and avoid treating him or her like a child. Doing that or nagging is disrespectful and demeaning and will crush their self-esteem even more. Someone with low self-esteem often feels they don't deserve respect. Respect will make them feel better and can help to build their self-esteem.

You have to lay down very clear goals for yourself. This is something that you should do on an everyday basis because it will certainly assist you deal with different people in a much simpler way. It is vital for you to understand that if you have great relations with others, then attaining your goals will be much simpler. You need to be more outgoing in your mission. This suggests that you must be the one to take the initiative. Many individuals react positively to those who take proactive functions in life.Value each and every individual that you satisfy. If you do this, then many individuals will feel great being around you and they will certainly additionally often tend to reciprocate the treatment.

Sometimes it is nice to do little things "just because", such as giving gifts, leaving notes and doing other special things for your partner. These things can (and should) be done outside special occasions too. Never be deprecating, in private or in public. Don't put your spouse down or make generalized comments like "you never take out the trash" or "you always leave a mess in the kitchen". These comments will make your spouse feel they do everything wrong. And saying bad things about them in public is never acceptable and will just embarrass them and knock them down emotionally.

Show that you are interested in them. Do you know their favorite animal or color? Do you know their ambitions and dreams? Find out these things and use the information. If you find out your wife likes turtles, buy her a turtle ornament, for example, "just because". Find out her favorite dinner and make it for her. This demonstrates your love and care for your spouse by actions, which speak louder than words. Asking questions about what your spouse likes and doesn't like is a great way to build intimacy and show that you are interested in everything about them.Remember not to go it alone. Asking "what is your opinion?" is very important, especially in a marriage. You must always take your partner's views into consideration when making a decision. Whether it is a major purchase or just a small thing, ask what your spouse thinks. Whether you are deciding where to go on vacation or changing the color of the bedroom carpet, ask them. This tells them that you trust and value them and this can greatly enhance your marriage.Healthy self-esteem ensures a happy, fulfilling marriage. Taking the time to implement the above ideas can help to build your spouse's self-esteem and make the two of you, plus any children you have, happier together. It might take weeks, or even months, to build up someone's self-esteem but if you use these ideas, hopefully it will be a great success in the end.




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Think About it and Your Dreams Come True - The Science of Getting Rich

By Brendon G. Burwell


For a while now, I have been reading about three hours a day. I love to read. I like to understand and analyze the books I read. I've always loved to write, too. I have written poems, songs, stories, games, comic strips (two published in "La Opinion," a newspaper in Los Angeles, and in another two newspapers in California) and more - most are written in Spanish.I didn't read too much until about five years ago. I know, most of the people say, "to be a good writer, you need to be a good reader first"... and I'm sure that is true, but I believe in myself and I have so much passion to write. I just do what I love to do and I always do my best in everything.

A month ago, I was listening to an audio tape from the legendary Earl Nightingale and he was talking about what he termed "The Strangest Secret." The secret, of course, is to believe and succeed. In this tape he challenged his listeners to conduct a test for the next 30 days which I tried and now pass on to you.For the next 30 days take an index card which you can keep with you at all times; so that you can review it whenever you need.

"What I want for myself, I want for everybody." -Jones of Toledo."Always speak in terms of advancement. Never allow yourself to feel disappointed. The failure is only apparent. It is really a great success." "Do what you ENJOY more. DESIRE is a manifestation of POWER." "Give the thought of INCREASE in your product/service and make sure that the customer is impressed with the same thought."

Then for the next 30 days focus on this "one single goal" and proceed with calm and positive assurance that you have already achieved the goal. Don't work for it like a lunatic, but work like you have never done before, knowing that it is all time well spent.The most important part in this exercise is to believe, so believe me, in 30 days your life will transform but if you get off track at any point during these 30 days then you must start all over again from day one.

Also, talent is not the cause of getting rich, for there are many talented people who are not wealthy, and there are many people with little talent who are very rich. There are many intelligent people, often with high education, that fail at achieving financial success, while there are many college drop outs who become millionaires.Additionally, people get rich and people fail in every business and in every profession. It is true that you will do better in a business that you like, and if you have some well developed talents you will do better in a business in which you can apply those talents, but getting wealthy is not determine by the business or profession you choose.Getting rich is also not the result of doing things others fail to do, for two people in the same business can be carrying out the same activities, but one gets rich and the other files for bankruptcy. There are a lot of hard working people whose lives are filled with struggle and who never manage to accumulate wealth.

The Law of Attraction (sometimes known as the Law of Vibration) and its relationship to wealth was documented by Wallace D. Wattles in the early 1900s in a book entitled, "The Science of Getting Rich." Wattles put forth the notion that, "The ownership of money and property comes as a result of doing things in a certain way; those who do things in a certain way, whether on purpose or accidentally, get rich; while those who do not do things in this certain way, no matter how hard they work or how able they are, remain poor."

Wattles' premise is that the foundation of doing things "a certain way" is to begin to think in a certain way. Thoughts, he writes, are a powerful creator of substance. In other words, like attracts like. If you think negatively, you will draw negative energy and experiences into your life; if you think positively, you will draw positive energy and experiences into your life.

Mr. Wattles says to start where you are right now. Begin in your present business-or other situation-, and in your present location, to do things in a certain way which causes success. Begin right now, wherever you are.There is a thinking stuff from which all things are made, and which, in its original state, permeates, penetrates, and fills the interspaces of the universe. A thought, in this substance, Produces the thing that is imaged by the thought. Man can form things in his thought, and, by impressing his thought upon formless substance, can cause the thing he thinks about to be created."- Wallace Wattles, "The Science of Getting Rich"

Wallace Wattles, author of "The Science of Getting Rich", says the first principle is thought. Thinking activates the "Formless Stuff" of the universe, to deliver the thought. Like exercise to the body, every thought contributes to the manifestation of the intended results. Also like exercise, results may not become apparent after the first attempt.Persistence is required to manifest thoughts. Faith during the appearance of failure is absolutely necessary. The action required to manifest results is impotent without absolute belief in efficacy of the process.

One of the most important principals that I strongly believe in and recommend is simple 'smart hard work'. Put in your heart and soul into wherever your talent and passion lies, smartly and the result will definitely be positive. Have faith in your self, have patience and persistence along with tremendous faith in God. Things are sure to fall into place.Do remember to be grateful to every one around you who have helped you achieve your goals of getting rich. Gratitude is another key word in moving towards your goal. Do remember to be grateful to your elders and most importantly to God.There are plenty of choices on your way to getting rich. But only you can choose the right one and follow your dreams of getting rich.




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Social Anxiety Vs Self-Confidence

By Ollie M. Buhr


Social anxiety disorder treatment is a subject that few seem to want to talk about openly with their friends just in case their friends think they have flipped!Social anxiety disorder (social phobia) creates intense feelings of fear in almost any social settings, in particular, when a person is "put under the spotlight" in an unfamiliar situation, or when they feel that at are being closely observed or scrutinized by others. Feeling what others may be thinking of you, or perhaps that you don't belong in certain situations, is a quite common experience.

Most of the people who suffer from social anxiety disorder remain aloof, and avoid social settings. Unfortunately, this can worsen their condition. By doing this they may be adding fuel to the fire, but some people feel that this may be the only solution available to them. If this type of avoidance goes on for a long time, it can create a feeling of distress in a suffering person. Learning to be comfortable in all kinds of social settings is the best way to "get your life back".

In fact, I would not be doing them a service or being fair to them. A counselor doesn't really 'fix' broken people as much as they reveal the healthy person that is trapped within. When I counsel, I look to see the potential whereas their poor thinking traps them in anxiety. Together, the client and doctor work to create a healthy picture of being. The result of this shift in thinking comes in feelings of success, contentment, and optimism.

Treating Social Anxiety Disorder.Anyone whose fears of interacting with others, or of social situations has prevented them from doing things is experiencing social phobia and should look into treatment for it. Humans, by our very nature, are at least semi-social creatures, so being able to right this can be extremely helpful to aid sufferers in regaining a normal, productive lifestyle.Social anxiety is detectable in individuals - with a higher prevalence in females - from very early on, sometimes as young as only a few years of age; the typical onset is in early teenhood, however. Most people endure the condition for ten years or more before they are diagnosed and begin any kind of therapy, too, which can be devastating when happening throughout the teen and young adult years. There is also a high percentage of sufferers who do not get diagnosed at all, and continue to suffer. Therefore, it is important for either sufferers themselves, or the people around them, to take the symptoms of social anxiety seriously.The two main ways in which social anxiety disorders are treated are with psychotherapy, and with medications. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is the most widely used therapy in training people to overcome their social anxiety in teaching them to change their thoughts when they begin to feel their anxiety kicking in. It is frequently combined with exposure therapy, where repeated exposure to triggers is used to help condition the sufferer's reaction. These types of therapy can be ongoing as needed, depending on the individual and any other anxiety disorders they may also be dealing with.

Take the next couple of days and spend time with this concept. Get rid of the stinking thinking, and win the war between Social anxiety vs. Self-confidence.Social Anxiety occurs not only when you're talking to someone but can also occur when you're an in a social environment, like going shopping or at school, parties. In order to overcome social anxiety you need to take small steps to building your confidence and creating positive experiences.

Social Anxiety-What It Is What happens when a person has social anxiety? This is a good question for anyone who feels they might have this issue or might know someone with it. Learning how to overcome it will come after the initial problem becomes understood.First off, a socially anxious person will feel anxious in these types of situations:Meeting new people,Being criticized,Having the center of attention,Doing an activity under surveillance,Meeting important or authoritative people,Being in a social situation, even with familiar people,Participating in group discussions,Engaging in close friendships or romantic situations

Secondly, in these situations, a person suffering from social anxiety will not be able to rid themselves of worry and doubt. Their cheeks may burn, conversations may seem stunted and awkward and they might seem on edge. They probably often wonder how to overcome social anxiety.Many more people in the world suffer from a social anxiety disorder. Some may only feel anxious in certain situations, say giving a speech, while others feel a more general anxiety in a variety of situations that are socially related. It is common for sufferers to be aware of their issue but not be able to stop it.How To Overcome Social Anxiety,You'd be happy to know that there is an answer for how to deal with your anxiety. There are several options. Much of it involves the mind and how a person thinks about a particular situation. This is why hypnosis can be might be a solution or a starting point for someone with social anxiety.

Try to balance the inhale and exhale process of breathing and take deep breaths. You can consciously slow your breathing down even though your thoughts are creating you to breathe quickly. Just by recognising that your starting to feel anxious, tell yourself to slow your breathing down. Just by doing this you will feel better and divert your thoughts.

Conquer the negative thoughts:A common cause of anxiety is reading the expressions and comments of other people wrongly and expecting a negative response to what you might say or what you might do. The trick is to make sure that you get rid of these negative thoughts from your mind and stay positive while talking to a group of people. Picture in your mind the response to what you have to say or do as positive.

Try this exercise now. Sit up straight, sit up so that you have perfect posture. Now think of someone with massive confidence and authority and copy the way they would sit. Did you notice your shoulder go back a little and your chest came out a bit? Think of something funny you remember. How do you feel? Great, right? By shying away from your social anxiety your body will act like a servant to your thoughts. Start to pan your day in the morning by seeing the day going perfectly, see yourself handling social situations and you gaining more and more confidence.Social anxiety affects most of us and those who are not affected by it have learned how to handle social situations. There thought process is totally different to yours, they're not afraid of what people mights say, they don't care of being judged they happy within themselves. Do these people ever find themselves in uncomfortable embarrassing situations? No, because they're not thinking about them.




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The Best Volunteer Management Practices

By Sebastian Troup


While it might seem difficult to organize a giving and volunteer program at your company, with proper management the task is far less cumbersome. Your first priority should be to make it simple for employees to give or to sign up for a volunteer opportunity. Pre-organize an event and provide plenty of different options so that your staff only needs to look at sheet, find a spot that works and fill in their names. Be sure to publicize the event as much as possible. Hang posters in your staff break room or in other spots where workers congregate. Don't forget to discuss the event and pass around a sign-up sheet during staff meetings.

As administrators, we are always busy, so incorporating workplace philanthropy is much easier if you make the program very manageable. Assign someone to act as the liaison between the charity and your company, as this will ensure that the information is passed along and all details are well coordinated.

In addition, when it comes to corporate volunteerism, be sure that your volunteer efforts are a seamless fit with the other philanthropy programs in your company. When you build upon your current charitable efforts, this creates a synergy that produces the best possible results. If your main corporate goal is promoting a cleaner, better world environment, make sure that your volunteer events and giving program support this goal. On your company website or intranet, list all of the volunteer options for your employees and make it easy for them to find volunteer tasks, make a donation or see any other possible option. Showcase the idea that there are many ways for employees to help. By keeping all of this information in one, easily accessible location, it reduces your management burden.

Another crucial task for volunteer program management is keeping top-notch records. You will need to record the number of hours employees volunteer, track financial donations and other contributions as well as any other important data. Not only does this help track the performance of all your charitable endeavors, it showcases which areas are really working well and which areas need some help.

This is not something you should try to track yourself on a spreadsheet because it will quickly become unmanageable. A volunteer management software tool can make your record keeping simple, accurate, and reliable, plus real-time reporting and analytics will mean you're always prepared to report back to company leadership on the effectiveness of your program.

To reiterate an earlier point, while your employees might want to help out, if you don't make it easy, then participation tends to be fairly low. Provide many easy, accessible options for volunteerism rather than making staff go out on their own and try to find information. The easier you make it, the more success your program will have.

Remember that input from employees is often extremely helpful, and some of your employees might already be volunteering for a cause for which they have great passion. Be sure to ask employees to share information about events in which they are participating and suggest ideas for the corporate giving program. Encouraging their ideas is a great way to make employees feel like they are truly a part of the program.

You might be surprised to learn that the biggest reason why employees don't take part in volunteer and giving programs is because no one asked them to participate. Be sure to ask and using multiple sources to get employees involved from inviting them personally to use company emails, staff meetings and sign-up sheets. It is also equally important that when employees do volunteer that they be recognized for their efforts as this will encourage further participation and make your program a great success.




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Exactly What The Professionals Because Of Achieve Web Marketing Good results

By Daniel Will


In today's entire world, Internet marketing is just one of most effective ways to sell and market merchandise. To be successful, you must learn around you may. This post is designed to inform you about the key elements involved with etching an excellent Online marketer out from yourself.

Advertising through the internet should not often be carried out online. Reach out to those who have blog sites consistently and get them check out meetings you may have. This assists create a connection between your brand and the bloggers, and they will be more passionate in writing regarding your company.

Online marketing is centered on solving difficulties. Start your organization by helping other people because of their concerns. Whenever you can solve an issue or will need, in that case your customers will really feel happy for you and are certain to recommend your small business to other individuals.

Researching standard elements of great web page layout is going to be time spent well. There are several courses on the net that cover CSS, Web coding along with other basic principles. Set-aside half an hour day-to-day to learning about website design. This allows you to continuously find out what you ought to work on your page.

E mail is definitely an efficient enterprise instrument. Send them information who have good quality information, which include changes on items and product sales you may have. You would like your emails being appreciated by people by giving them something they desire, not disregarded as spammy. These emails will permit your potential customers know that you value their company.

In the event you do not know this presently, you already possess the issues you ought to be a winner at online marketing. All that you should have is basically that you. No pricey software or some other strategies are important. Good results can be realized by way of hard work and wise marketing and advertising judgements.

A banner such as a motto ought to be in your site. This assists your website look a lot more specialist and displays it possesses a objective, making visitors understand specifically what your site is about. This will help you showcase the services you provide and also the reasons behind your resolve for your products and buyers.

Don't disregard primary advertising it's a powerful approach to work in tandem with Website marketing. Contact clients by fax, mobile phone, or e-mail and inform them concerning your deals and services. It is possible to obtain most of the important information by seeking inside the actual online directory or available online telephone textbooks.

No matter what your products or services is, you should be able to create income. Utilize the recommendations on this page and you may find success. When you enjoy close up attention and attempt hard, you'll get more clients swiftly.




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Personal Development Tips That Everyone Should Follow

By Eddie Yeo


There are many people out there who can help with getting you to understand yourself better. You may gain valuable insight into your thoughts and feelings from your friends or even by speaking with professional teachers and gurus.

Don't put off making decisions, as this could deny you opportunities. You need to face these decisions with confidence, even if you aren't totally sure. Use your common sense and knowledge when making important decisions. Even decisions with less favorable outcomes are useful because they allow the decision-maker to learn from the mistake. Making a bad decision helps you make a better decision next time.

Have a notebook or a smartphone app to jot down notes wherever you go. Carry paper with you everywhere. If an idea grabs you while you are on the subway, write it down, then do something about it when inspiration strikes.

Live according to your principles. Each individual has beliefs that he or she follows all the time. If you have a good foundation to defend them upon (and you should), your self esteem will benefit from adherence to your core principles. This also helps to make you a consistent person. This is an essential character trait.

Create a personal development plan that is centered around personal beliefs that you have identified. You will not be happy or motivated if your plan goes against what you believe in. Instead, take your energy and time and focus them on things that are aligned with your values. Implementing a plan for personal development can improve both your work and home life in the future.

Write a pep talk about yourself. Make a self-empowering post-it note or note card. Have it with you at all times, and look at it when you want some inspiration. You could even record yourself reading it or make a video. How will this help with your personal development?

Unless you are self-sufficient, you cannot expect to be able to care for another person. Be sure to rest, relax, and restore your own mind and body.

Talking over your personal issues with someone such as a trained counselor or pastor can be an uplifting experience. These professionals are trained and experienced in helping you understand and manage the issues you have. Their job is to listen to you and your concerns and help you gain a new outlook on your situation. By speaking with a professional about your problems, you can lead a much healthier and enjoyable life.

Ignore social status and instrumental gain and treat everyone equally, unless they have actually done something to earn your scorn. The treatment you show them is not a reflection of their character but of yours.

Attitude is a key part of growing yourself and becoming a more evolved person. Having a bad attitude in life will never get you far and can in fact, lead you in the wrong direction. Therefore, remain optimistic at all times, especially when things are not going your way.

Pick out what you wish to do in life and go do it. A plan for your ideal life is a great starting point, but a plan without action will get you nowhere. You must take steps, one by one, to start making your dreams your reality.

Do not go shopping for comfort. Replace shopping with a hobby or a sport. Shopping for comfort can quickly become very expensive, and the bills will add to your stress.

Though it is important to speak your mind, it is equally valuable to listen when others do so. This definitely applies for your personal development. Ensure you are taking time to listen to yourself. Listening to what your heart and body are telling you is key to getting what you really want and need in life.

An important bit of personal development advice is to always treat your body well. When your body lets you know that it needs food, water, rest, or the like, give it what it needs as soon as you can. If you listen to your body, you will be in better shape. If you disregard your body's intelligence, you might find in the future that it will not be able to take care of you.

Your body's health influences the well-being of your mind. Exercising regularly and eating well helps tremendously. It's important to give attention to building both a strong, healthy body and a healthy frame of mind.

Everybody makes mistakes, and making healthy food choices is definitely one field in which mistakes get made. Stress is not good for you. Because of this fact, you shouldn't worry too much about little things.

If personal development is an important goal in your life, be sure to feed your faith with love. You can not have faith without love. You should constantly look for ways to give meaning to your faith. Faith and love can lead you to help those in need, and believe in people when they need it most, especially yourself.

A great personal development tip is to always use love to fuel your faith. Love is a vital ingredient to faith. Therefore, it is important that you never become complacent in your faithfulness. In this way, you can be a living example to those around you.

Strive to be the best at everything you put your mind to. You should always want to be the best you can be. Do not worry if you are not the best at what you do: the important part is to enjoy it and inspire others. By increasing your value within your field of study or work, you can enjoy benefits including higher self-esteem.

Establish a very detailed plan to improve your life. Having a specific goal keeps you focused on what's really important. Having goals laid out will increase your likelihood of being able to overcome the challenges you encounter, and you will feel good about yourself once you do.

You must monitor your progress whenever you undertake a personal development project. Use the advice this article has given you to figure out exactly what you should be doing. When you monitor your progress with any task, you will surely begin to notice improvement.




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Get Inspired By A Motivational Sales Speaker

By Rena Hudson


Empowering people by helping them get rid of obstacles that stop them from doing their best in achieving their dreams is what a motivational sales speaker does. Fear of dealing with the competition and lack of confidence is among the obstacles that most people are faced with. In this case, these speakers are usually expected to coach them into getting their mindset right.

Going for motivational speeches is indispensable for people struggling from moving from the status they are in as they get to identify the changes they need to make to get there. Many have had a humble background but with hard work and perseverance they have achieved a lot. It is by hearing such stories that one realizes the potential they have and what they need to achieve their dreams.

Their most important task being motivating people, being realistic is the best way to reach out to the hearts of these people, convincing them that anyone can make it in life. Sharing stories that started from a humble background but turned out successful is not always the way to motivate the audience; engaging them in a way that they identify their flaws is the best way to empower them.

As most speakers have said in the past, creativity and having the willingness to take risks is what gets a person to where they want to be. It is the uniqueness that people have that makes them different giving them competitive advantages over their competitors. However, it is for this that one should be willing to take some risks as being unique is not always easy.

This is usually all about guiding people into adopting better management skills so as to facilitate better results. By this, offering ideas is the best way to get people out of their comfort zone, making them try new things that will take them to the point they want to reach. This might be challenging at first especially if things do not work out immediately but with time things will start working out.

As seen in the past, people are mostly inspired by speeches that are from personal experiences; the idea of starting out from a humble background and working hard until one reaches the top is what people usually want to hear. This is the real deal as people can see the prove of the speech given; besides, motivating people to achieve their dream while you yourself has not might seem insulting to the audience as it is not practical.

For one to achieve what they want, it is necessary to have a vision of their dream or at least envision the status you would like to attain in a certain duration. Usually, experience is said to be the best teacher; in other words, people relate more with those that have gone through the same experiences and having made it out, they are convinced that they also have the opportunity to do the same.

Motivating people into following their dreams, helping them recognize their potentials without forgetting their values is what a motivational sales speaker does. While chasing dreams it is easy to forget the values that guide you as a person; moreover, when looking to attain high status in society one ought to know that losing the status can be very easy, and therefore one should also work hard to maintain them.




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The Linden Method - Why You Need it Now

By Saville Cartier


The linden method is a well-known treatment for panic and anxiety attacks, as well as phobias. It was devised by a former sufferer of panic attacks and agoraphobia named Charles Linden. He tried various conventional treatments such as medications, but nothing was successful. Finally, he developed a way to cure himself and other people, and called it the linden method.

Is the method truly effective, or is it just a scam? The method is more popular in Europe, especially in Britain more than in the United States. The center is situated in the U.K. and people from Britain are less likely going to ask that question. A person who assumes that the method is just a scam most probably does not know that the center has already successfully treated people of their panic attacks. In more than a decade since the center was established, more than 80,000 individuals already have utilized the method to cure their panic and anxiety attacks.

There are also psychological symptoms that you may suffer with such as obsessive thoughts, constant and uncontrollable worries or feeling of anxiety, thoughts and fears about death, sudden anxiety attacks, phobia and detachment from reality among others. These physical and emotional dilemmas often leave you feeling alone and totally hopeless.

Before trying out the method, know these two things first: The first thing is that, it does not work for everyone. He did not make any lofty promises that his treatment applies to all people. What he says is that it has a 95% chance of working. This implies that while the method is very promising and that there is a very high chance that it would work, there is also a small chance that it won't. That is why it offers a money back guarantee.

Next is that it isn't a magic cure. It is a method that you must learn and put an effort to apply it on your own step by step. Also, treatment doesn't happen overnight. Improvement on your condition usually happens gradually. Though the results usually come fast, you must work hard and exert effort.The method is a promising treatment to treat panic attacks. If you would like to get rid of your panic and anxiety attacks, you have a very high chance in being successful with the linden method.The Linden Center in U.K. and the more than 80,000 people who tried the Linden Method and successfully eliminate anxiety are the living proof that there is no such thing as the

This is an online program developed by Charles Linden. It is a step-by-step guide to cure patients suffering from panic attacks, anxiety and traumatic disorders. Linden was once a sufferer of these behavioural abnormalities. In his quest for treatment, he experienced many things including failure but in 1996, had developed a process and successfully cured himself. In his purpose of sharing these steps to help other patients of the same dilemma, he created a method which is also available in the World Wide Web as The Linden Method.

The person behind the development of The Linden Method is Charles Linden from Britain. More than 24 years, he suffered from conditions of anxiety, panic attacks, OCD and agoraphobia. He faced those years battling the condition and after sometime, when he decided to start making a change, he studied, wrote and created the method in 1996. Now, he is the CEO of his own company and lives a normal life again.Years passed, like any other medical discoveries the method Linden invented faced criticisms about its effectiveness as a cure. But Linden's dedication to work and help those who suffer the same condition he had, it was now recognized as healing program in the medical industry, with 96% success rate. It was featured in numerous magazines and prints and the television.

Amygdala is a part of the brain which is responsible in the production and control of level of anxiety. The amygdala works depending on the level of stress, fear, and anger. The severity of these feelings causes the amygdala to produce higher levels of anxiety. Frequent occurrence of these feelings may lead to malfunction of the amygdala. The result of this may cause the part to continually release higher level of amygdala. In this way, the brain might lose critical and logical thinking. The Linden Method relaxes the amygdala and resets it to normal functioning.Last but not least, this online program is very affordable. It costs less than one session with a psychiatrist. It is not like other treatments of behavioural abnormalities such as medicine taken orally which requires ample amount of money. Most importantly, this is also not like doing therapies and physical exercises which require assistance of somebody.




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How to Stop Anxiety Attacks Without Medication

By Bessie D. Burton


Anxiety attacks are horrifying! But you can stop them. And you can prevent them without medication. Here, you'll discover what triggers anxiety attacks and how to stop them quite naturally.Typically, doctors prescribe medication such as anti-depressants, tranquilizers and even beta-blockers for anxiety and anxiety attacks. The anti-depressants for managing your 'mood', tranquilizers for 'calming' you, and, beta-blockers to help manage some of the physical symptoms of anxiety.

The method was developed by Barry McDonagh himself. He used to suffer from frequent panic attacks and GAD or the General Anxiety Disorder. According to him, some would not think that it is even possible to have a natural way of relief from panic attack. But amazingly, Barry developed a simple technique based on advanced psychology. He is happy to share his developments with those who, like him, are suffering from panic attacks.

We need to go back hundreds of thousands of years, and picture our forefathers living and surviving in a very wild, hostile environment; where it definitely was the 'survival of the fittest.' And the human body, being something quite miraculous, was pre-equipped (and still is) to give the individual the greatest possible chance to survive and prosper.

For example, at the very 'whiff' of danger to the body, chemical reactions were triggered in the brain that produced split-second physical and emotional responses in the body. These gave the person under threat the greatly enhanced capacity to fight an enemy or wild animal, or, to run away to safety. This is why we call this the body's 'fight or flight' response.

The technique works not only for those who have just recently suffered panic attacks, but it also applies to those who have suffered long general anxiety. The main goal of the program is for clients to break away from the cycle of experiencing anxiety. Eventually, it encourages the person to be free from the fear of experiencing anxiety and return to normal everyday living. In addition, Panic Away does not require you to recall past events that might have stimulated anxiety. Over and above, the technique is client friendly.Be sure to check out more about Panic Away, the 21-7 Technique and more anxiety stopping information . I did, and glad to have done so. You can even give feedback on how it works for you.

You can from one minute being the centre to attention to next dreading the thought of anyone talking to you. Social Anxiety can affect you at anytime of your life. Most who have suffered from it were once confident sociable people to avoiding any social occasion. If you can't understand why you can't handle talking to people when you could once talk to anyone, don't worry. Social Anxiety affects millions of people. The most important thing you can do is learn to overcome it, accept that this is just a small moment in your life and you have a future of happiness ahead of you.

Now, in your vulnerable state, all it takes is for your stress / anxiety to rise even more, due to a stressful event or situation, such as sitting (or studying for) an exam, being stuck in traffic, shopping in a very crowded supermarket, etc. The outcome is that your overall anxiety levels are increased dramatically enough to 'fool' your mind into believing that you're under threat, and so the fight or flight response is triggered.

The correct response toward these horrific feelings is complete passivity. This means instead of fighting these horrific feelings, actually take note of them. Instead of wanting to get rid of them, realize you can live with them and solidly resolve that you will do whatever you are doing with these feelings present. Realize you can do anything just as well with these feelings present as you can without them present. Make no attempt to stop them in any way and realize that they most certainly will disappear on their own timetable. In short, the key to overcoming an anxiety attack is to let it run its course.

Now, to stop anxiety attacks, most people try to eliminate their general anxiety first. And there are many natural remedies and therapies to help you do this, e.g. hypnosis, psychotherapy, counselling, meditation, yoga, acupuncture, deep breathing exercises, visualization techniques, music therapy, etc.But the key to unlocking the real mystery of how to stop panic attacks is to recognize that you have a real fear of having more anxiety attacks. You see, once having suffered the horrifying symptoms, you clearly never want to repeat that experience. So you end up with a conscious or unconscious 'fear' of having one. And guess what? This very fear (being anxiety) builds up on your already high anxiety levels and triggers another anxiety attack!

So, rather than working on your general anxiety first (with your fear of anxiety attacks always in the background), you need to get rid of your fear and so break out of this vicious cycle of; anxiety,anxiety attack,fear,more anxiety,another anxiety attack,more fear,etc. Then, once having banished your fear of attacks, which will help prevent further attacks, you can then work on effectively eliminating your general anxiety.And, the first stage in this process, is to realize that your anxiety attacks can't harm you. As you now know, they are just the symptoms of a perceived threat that doesn't even exist. The next step is to learn and utilize a technique to help you eliminate your fear of anxiety attacks.




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How to Make Millions - A Beginners Guide

By Nikki C. Hodge


Don't you believe that anyone would love to know how to make a million dollars? Think about it. If a person attained $200,000 annually they might produce a million dollars in five years.For you to know how to produce a million dollars doing the job you love, you will have to research every book you'll find about your business. You will have to put back money by way of a mixture of overtime pay, raises, your base salary and bonuses. If you're going to become one who is able to improve your take-home pay, you are going to have to go up the ladder and become one who is in charge.

MAKING A FORTUNE FROM SCRATCH: Dhirubhai Ambani's story from rags to riches His rags to riches story, is very inspiring. He worked as a petrol pump attendant. He did not have any college degree. He had no money but had unlimited desire to become rich. He learned everything about business and trading while working at his job. Soon he realized that he was not made for such a small job. He started a small business of trading polyester yarn and soon mastered everything about this business.Soon he realized that polyester business was going to be very profitable in the future. Using his for sight, knowledge and some smart planning he made millions in the polyester industry. There were thousands of businessmen at that time but why only he was able to find this opportunity. It's all in your mind. You have to back yourself and always be on the look-out for a new opportunity. Now his company hires top talent form around the world. So even if you are working as an employee you must have a goal in mind and that goal should not be to die on that desk behind which you have been slaving for the past 10 years. You must look to the future and keep working on a plan, learning everything about business, finding ways to create wealth out of nothing. Thousands of opportunities available to do business in a legal way: It is important to note that "smart work" does not mean illegal ways to earn money. It just means that you are more aware of the opportunities around you as well as your own strength and weaknesses. All the methods that you will use should involve legal ways of making money. To snatch the rights of others is no way of getting rich.

Achieving success is based totally on what you tell yourself. Keep in mind you will probably have to work harder than the next guy, you might want to be like a unit that never ceases which many people simply can't or will not likely do. Also, many people fail simply because they simply didn't persevere long enough to realize success in the commercial or product they were marketing.Thinking too much in what the competition is doing won't make you successful. Do everything you need to do to make your personal success. Things might not be what they seem so although you keep a watchful eye, keep your mind on your own organization. If not, you might slow down when you should not slow down. The next bend in the road or the next corner you turn, with the hard work you have done, may be the one leading to your success.

Do you notice that some rivals only do what's necessary to maintain their business and just keep themselves afloat? This is the reason why you keep the mind on your own enterprise, full steam ahead until you have reached the exact level you imagined, and beyond. Then your family are living on dividends from the business and you have hired others to do your job.Remember the money you have been storing whilst you have been so busy? Now, it is adding to and that cash is earning more income.

Now, you can give to the charities of your choice. Things to remember. If you are not successful, do not blame others. If you believe yourself successful, you will be. Work diligently for what you would like and what you're passionate about. Success will follow you and you will have learned how to make millions of dollars.




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Natural Remedies to Treat Anxiety

By Kenneth L. Johnson


If you're suffering from problems associated with anxiety, prescription medicines should be your last resort. Most doctors rush into prescribing powerful medicines, which have a list of side effects. Some of these side effects can inhibit organs and other chemical pathways in your body.But fortunately, there are many home based and herbal remedies that can work for you, and they have no side effects at all!

Let's take a look at a selection of herbs that are effective in healing many types of anxiety related symptoms.The most common symptoms of anxiety are,IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome),Heart palpitations,Emotional instability,Before you begin any treatment, it is best to examine your anxiety. There are different treatments for different symptoms. Understand your symptoms, and try these home remedies. Catnip.This is a unique remedy for anxiety. This is a member of the family of mints. It treats many anxiety symptoms, and is used to fix stomach cramps and irritation. It also reduces headache and insomnia. Plus, it betters appetite and eases muscle tension. All these are very common anxiety symptoms and this is why catnip is considered an effective anxiety treatment.

Herbal Remedies,Chamomile. Chamomile tea can calm the nerves and also helps with sleeping at night. It's easy to fix:Take on tablespoon of chamomile flowers and steep them in 1 cup of hot water for about 15 minutes.Breath in the aroma as as you're letting it cool.Strain it and drink when needed.

Kava kava.Also known as just Kava, this relieves moderate to severe anxieties. Its root cures many problems like insomnia, anxiety, and stress. Kava doesn't just relieve anxiety symptoms; it is also good if you have stressful feelings. But since kava might not be good for everyone, it is best to talk to your doctor before taking it. If you consume alcohol, are on some medication, or if you have liver problems, it is best to talk to your doctor before taking it.Hops.Yes, the same hops that are used in beer can now be used for your anxiety. You may not know, but hops have been used medically for many years. It is used to treat stress, headaches, and insomnia. Also beneficial for indigestion and nervousness, it helps in reducing fever as well. Hops are used to lower the uric acid level in the human body. They also treat infections and skin problems. If you have rheumatism, hops can give you some relief, though rheumatism is not related to anxiety.

These are just a few home remedies for anxiety that are sure to ease some of the stresses of everyday life. If you're truly serious about having more energy, feeling great on a consistent basis, and losing weight, then go to the link below to get your free ebooks now. If you don't start feeling great and shedding pounds right away... I'd be QUITE surprised.

Skullcap.It has tonic, anti-inflammatory, and sedative properties. Skullcap soothes those twitching muscles, and even helps if you have the RLS (restless leg syndrome) or epilepsy. Since skullcap has natural sedative properties, some people use it for insomnia, rapid heartbeat, restlessness, and depression. Make sure to take it as directed. It is not recommended for pregnant women.

Saint John's Wort.It is not exactly for anxiety, but it is extremely effective for patients of depression. And since anxiety and depression symptoms are sometimes similar, it can be used for anxiety as well. St. John's Wort also serves as a helpful mood enhancer. Its medicinal properties help cure gastroenteritis, diarrhea, chest infections, and viral infections of genitals and lungs, etc.

Kava Root: Kava root is excellent at treating mild to moderate anxiety and has been compared to drugs like Valium and Xanax for its calming abilities, yet in a completely natural form. They have proven that it is safe for the liver, causes no noticeable side effects and can be used in place of prescription medications that are used for the same symptoms. The best form to take kava is a concentrated extract, either capsule or tablet, however a liquid is available if you can stand the flavor.

Lemon Balm: This natural remedy has been used as early as 300 BC and was used for poisonous bites and stings and later to relieve stress and anxiety, lift people's spirits, help them sleep as well as ease digestion. Overall, if taken regularly it has been known to improve moods and help promote calmness and alertness. When used with other herbs like Valerian and chamomile the effects can be enhanced. A relaxing lemon balm tea can lead to tranquility.

Relaxation Inspiration.There can be something comforting about deliberate relaxation rituals. Try setting aside a few minutes, several times a day to relax.If you normally have time to gulp a cup of coffee and shove a donut in your mouth, while trying to meet a deadline, then you have time for a cup of herbal tea and a few moments of deep breathing. Chamomile is one of the oldest known anxiety remedies. Chamomile tea may be just the thing to give you a momentary calm.At some point, you are going to wash yourself. Instead of a rushed shower, carve out a few more minutes and enjoy a warm bath with some soft music and scented candles.




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How To Build Self Confidence - 5 Fast, Easy Ways

By William R. Givens


Being confident in life is crucial to having a good life. That's why, if there's anything you must know it's how to build self confidence.I think it's so important that I would like to quickly teach you a strategy I use to achieve great things without ever doubting myself.Self confidence comes with success.The more successful you are, the more confident you'll become.If you want to get a good head start, take something you're already good at and improve on it even more. When you do that, your confidence will grow and you'll have all the power you'll need to achieve whatever you desire. Just do your best.You've probably heard me say this before, but I'll go ahead and say it again, anyway.There's no such thing as failure.

Low confidence is not being able to state the obvious; it is whimpering when you are giving the opportunity to lay your claims, you always end up worried behind the scene, throwing dirt on your skin. Women yearn for tough and confident guys; guys that know what they are doing so if you want to get the right girl you are dreaming about you need to have self confidence.Here are three major moves to make to build your self esteem, to be able to pass all the test of women. Women test men in relationships, you know those days they refuse to pick your calls and those days she shows up after you have waited for hours, you know those times she plays all those girl games and have you calling every other minutes just to make sure you don't lose her? Well, those are how women test men.And if you need to effectively by-pass this sort of tests you need to eliminate inferiority complex, how?

When you do that, you'll see that you'll be improving very rapidly.If you want to fix something, do it.This is crucial if you want to know how to build self-confidence.See, when you work on achieving something, there will probably be a time when you'll want to blame someone else for your failures.It's very natural and all of us do that sometimes. The truth is that it's always your fault. Even if you're not directly responsible for the failure, it's still your fault.

Because you're in charge of what's going on in your life. If something doesn't go as expected, just fix it. Don't waste time blaming other people for it.Don't think about failure.I've told you before that there's no such thing as failure. That's the truth.If you understand that failure doesn't exist, you'll see that you aren't afraid to fail anymore. When that fear is gone, you won't have to think about failure, and you'll become very successful.Thinking about failure is a waste of time, and time is the only thing you really don't have.

As part of this positive environment, you will need to have Good Company and associate with positive, like-minded people as often as you can. Negative people will drain you of energy, fill you with limiting beliefs and lower your confidence levels.Conversely, positive people will inspire you, energize you and their assured self confidence will raise your confidence levels. They are a pleasure to be around too.

It learns that whenever someone puts a piece of rope around its ankle, it just won't be able to free itself.People are very similar in that aspect. They stop believing in themselves after they've failed a few times.Don't be like that elephant. You need that belief, as well as the other things we talked about, to really know how to build self-confidence.




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The Law Of Attraction And Economics

By Harold C. Rehm


Studies have shown that success does not come by accident. It can be learned. When we learn and master the key to success, we can easily get what we want in life. Our success becomes repeatable and we can create success in every aspect of our life, including financial success, great health, strong relationship and many other areas.Over the recent years, the law of attraction has received a great amount of popularity, emerging to the forefront of media as the key to help people to fulfil their innermost goals and ambitions. Much of the current understanding of the law could be attributed to The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, a hard-hitting self-help book that has sold millions of copies. The popularity of the law of attraction comes from its proven results in transforming people's life. Those who had applied this in a correct way enjoy significant successes that they can't imagine they could have achieved.

Well, let's take a look at this from an economic perspective. Forget about morality or religion or anything like that. Let's just take a look at the basic mechanics of money and human action.There are only five ways to get money. You can find it, receive it as a gift, steal it, print it or earn it. I'm going to assume that when you meditate or visualize the LOA, you aren't stealing, finding, being given, or printing money. You are earning it somehow. You are trading your skills or products for cash.Now, let's consider the basics of human trade. We only trade things when we think we are getting the better end of the deal. When you buy a hamburger for a dollar, you actually think the hamburger is worth more to you than the dollar. Otherwise, you wouldn't make the exchange. That would be like changing a dollar for a dollar, which would be silly.Likewise, the person selling you the hamburger would rather have the dollar. Before the exchange, you have a dollar, but you want a hamburger. He or she has a hamburger but would rather have the dollar. After the exchange you are both better off.

In order to successfully control your life circumstances using the law of attraction, there are three phases that you must undergo. The first phase is you must know what you want to achieve. Knowing exactly what you want and ask for it. In other words, you must focus on what you want, rather than on what you don't want. All the successful people throughout history have had one characteristic inherent within them that is they are clear with what they want to achieve. They have great drive and passion to pursue their dreams. As a result, they thrive and succeed in their endeavours.The second phase of applying the law of attraction is to believe that the universe will answer your desires. The law of attraction will answer your needs, and you must truly believe this. So often that people don't have faith in getting what they want, and let the doubts or unworthiness slips in. The degree of believe has to be strong and to the extent of believing you already get what you wish to have, be the person that you wanted to be and living the life that you dream about. Believing that you have already received it and you will be rewarded. This strong believes must be able to create feeling and make you feel it. It is essential to feel exactly how you have achieved your dreams to manifest the things that you want in your life.

Finally, you must be ready to receive. The ability to accept, feeling great and receive graciously opens the door to unlimited success and wealth. The universe gives to people who are a good receiver. This means that you must keep a positive mindset, feeling deserve to receive and persevere to see the success in each area that you want to manifest in your life.In utilizing the law of attraction, you have the choice and consciously choose to think positively or negatively. If you remain positive you will attract good situations, but if you are negative you will attract despair. By being in positive state and ready to receive, you will automatically behave and act to change your environment to correspond to your desires. As outlined in the Secret, such law of attraction techniques will assist you in communicating positive vibrations to the universe. Above all, never ever give up trying to incorporate the law of attraction into your life to your advantage, and your circumstances will respond to you with your persistence.

Success means different things to different individuals. It comes in many different forms and the idea of being successful for one person might not be the same as for another person. In fact, there are as many definitions of success as there are people on this planet. For instance, if you are a businessman, success may mean being among the top 10 companies in your industry and if you are a student, success may mean getting distinctions and coming first in your exams. According to Earl Nightingale, "Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal." It is therefore very important for each one of us to define clearly what success means to us.We can use the Law of Attraction to attract the success we desire in our life. According to the Law of Attraction, we attract into our lives, whatever we give our energy, attention and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. If we want to deliberately attract success, we have to follow three steps.

Everything going in your life whether it be relationships, financial status, well-being e.t.c is a direct reflection of your accustomed way of thinking and the nature of your thoughts.The Law of Attraction gained a lot of publicity back in 2006 when the film the secret was launched which was a documentary type film where some of the leading experts appeared on camera to give an insight into what the Law of Attraction is and how it works.The film was good for the newcomer who knew little or nothing about the law of attraction but at the same time it really only touched the tip of the iceberg and gave no reasoning regarding how this powerful law of the universe works or its true origins.Many people associate the law of attraction with new age movements and similar practices, unfortunately modern media and uneducated bloggers and such like haven't helped matters!

Let us say that success to us means becoming an outstanding manager. Most of the time, many people find it very difficult to know exactly what they want as an outstanding manager. One of the best ways to become clear is to make a list of things that we do not want as an outstanding manager. The more things we put in our list, the clearer we become. We do not have to focus on what we do not want to attract but just examine briefly what we do not want. Once we have made a list of around 40 to 50 things that we do not like, we proceed by making the list of things that we do want as an ideal manager. The things that we want are the exact opposite of the things that we do not want. For example, I do not want to be a manager who is not respected by my team will be replaced by I want to be a manager who is highly respected by my team. I do not want to take wrong decisions will be replaced by I always take the right decisions in all situations.

The second step to deliberately attract success is to raise our vibration. We must always bear in mind that we do not get what we want but we get what we vibrate. We must therefore become a "vibrational match" to what we want in order to attract what we truly desire. One way to raise our vibration is to act as if we are already successful and start experiencing how we would be feeling if we had already achieved the success we wanted, how joyful we would feel and how happy and excited we would be as a result of achieving the success we desire. We can also use affirmations or use phrases like "I am very successful now." to raise our vibration to attract the success we desire in our life. We can also use visualization and see ourselves already experiencing the success we want.

Faith in success keeps us moving toward our goal regardless of how we feel or what is going on around us. It also keeps us positive and feeling good. It makes sense to have faith if only to feel good and be more pleasant to be around but when you think about it, who would you rather give an opportunity to? Most people will give a job or an opportunity to the person they feel would run with it, not the person who acts as if the world is out to get them. And gratitude when our goals are reached just makes sense.Now you'll hear quantum physics mentioned in connection with the Law of Attraction and frankly, I believe in that aspect. But regardless of whether you believe in the quantum physics of it, the steps you go through are just logical steps that have been proven over and over to produce success. So when you see me refer to the Law of Attraction know that I am referring to a collection of principles that have helped countless people create success in all aspects of their lives.




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How To Grow Taller Fast And Naturally

By Hamsa Cremers


Did you know that major companies would rather hire a taller person than a shorter person? This is all because the taller stature represents power and leadership. This is why it is so important for you to discover the techniques that can help you grow taller and in a hurry. Here are some tips to get you started.These are perfect for growing taller because they will help your legs grow longer and this is where the majority of your gains will be made. When you run at high speeds your body produces human growth hormone like crazy. This helps you grow faster and the longer you can maintain your top speed the more HGH your body will be able to produce.[]

Your metabolism has a lot to do with your height and you can gain a few inches just by speeding it up. This is because the faster your metabolism the more HGH you will let out into your body for use. You will also have better blood circulation which will help you grow as well. You can speed up your metabolism by eating more meals throughout the day.

These type of foods can best be found in dairy products like milk, red meat, green vegetables and fruits. Calcium is vital for strengthening the bones, if you miss this then you are likely to have bones that are weak and eventually can shrink and make you look even shorter.Exercises play a major part in growing taller fast. Some exercises are known to release growth hormones when performed. You should pay close attention to what exercises to perform as some exercises can only harm you and give you false hopes.

Adequate Rest. Rest is very essential, not only in regaining your lost energy; but also to allow your body to grow. A busy day filled with stress and fatigue can reduce your growth; and adequate rest lets the body heal after a busy day and eliminate all the unwanted tension.Proper Body Posture. When you sit or stand in a slumped position, your spinal cord tends to bend. Remember that the spinal cord will determine how tall or how stretched your body can be. Maintain a proper body posture so the spinal cord will also be straightened. This will give you the appearance of being taller than your actual height; so no matter if you are sitting, standing or doing something, ensure that you keep your back straight.

When done properly these stretching exercises can make anyone grow taller fast even if you are after puberty. Though after puberty the chances are you can increase a very minimal height from the compressed discs. But otherwise one is prone to grow tremendously taller since it is at the period of puberty that one can greatly increase height.

If you are also one of those people who have always felt that if only they were taller then they actually are they would have been happier in life because they would have been able to get ahead in life very easily, because they would have been able to avoid all types of jokes that are usually cracked on short people and at the same time it is seen that professionally short people are usually under estimated and not entrusted with bigger responsibilities. So if you also want to avoid being judged all the time by your short height, then it is recommended that you should read this article very carefully because here I am going to tell you about the various ways in which you can grow taller by a few valuable inches and that too in a completely natural manner.

There are a number of things that you need to do in order to be able to grow taller. The first one of them being exercises, so make sure that you perform some full body stretching exercises daily, this is because these exercises will help you to straighten out your spine completely, this is an important thing to do because your spine usually develops a curve in the process of growth due to the various bad postures and walking patterns that we follow, so these exercises will help to get rid of this curve and make you appear taller.The other thing that you have to do is eat a very healthy diet that is rich in protein and calcium. You have to make sure that you do not consume any type of unhealthy food that has no nutritional value because it will surely hamper the growth of your height.

The second natural step for girls to grow taller is by exercising and doing sports. It has been proven that even an 18-year young lady can still grow taller if she only does regular exercise or sports. These activities get the blood circulating actively. This also means that oxygen and nutrients are traveling well in all parts of the body, making growth a lot more possible.

Aside from improving blood circulation, exercising and doing sports also stretch the legs and the spine. They carry the bulk of your height so it's very important to stretch them. When they lengthen, you add up several inches to your height. One thing you need to remember though is that lengthening should be matched with strengthening the surrounding muscles. The muscles are responsible in supporting the spine and the bones. If they are not supported well, they can not give you the taller posture you deserve.Some of the best sports you can do are basketball and volleyball. Both of them involve a lot of jumping and stretching which could be excellent for your legs and spine.

Now back to the title. Yes you can grow taller quickly and naturally. If you follow a strict regimen of specific exercises along with proper nutrition you could see 2 to 4 inches of growth in a matter of a few weeks. This requires commitment (sorry, no magic pills here), but the results have been proven time and time again.There are specific drills like the Cobra stretch and swimming that simultaneously straighten your posture while strengthening the muscles supporting your back. These drills are also very effective in lengthening and regenerating the cartilage between vertebrae giving added space between each vertebra and therefore making you taller.




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Natural Remedies For Anxiety

By Lotye Vaillancourt


One of the best ways to reduce anxiety is to determine that anxiety does not control you. It is now the time that you take charge of your mind and use the information in this article and the links provided to learn how you'll be able to accomplish this.One of the ways that others are accomplishing this is by consistent and daily practice. People are changing their habits by creating realistic goals about their current situation and then making plans to move forward. They are not allowing anxiety,fear, stress and the hundred other things get in the way.

Raw food lovers to even medical doctors are now encouraging the use and purchase of herbals supplements and natural products to overcome anxiety. They realize the old saying, "What you put in, you get out." With the prescription drugs having so many side effects and how they are not actually natural at all, it's no surprise people are walking away from scripts as people in the streets refer as.

Another fast, easy, free, and natural remedy for anxiety is using affirmations. Affirmations are simply positive statements that you repeat in your head to yourself throughout the day. Begin your affirmations by saying, "I am." For example,I am relaxed.I am happy.I am safe.I am in control.I am at peace.Affirmations should be repeated 10 times or more consecutively each time you feel anxiety coming on. They can be even more effective when combined with some of the tricks you learn in meditation, such as deep breathing.

One of the remedies is called the Seven Source Mushroom Extract. It is a small bottle that has a dropper vile built into the lid. You simply drop 10 droplets or more into a cup of water and take daily for 90 days. Then other people are also taking this extract straight up by dropping it on the bottom of the tongues for the direct effect to the blood stream.

I would have to say that the Seven Source Mushroom Extract was good as well as a calming feel came over me for about 1-3 hours. I just was content and working away on my projects after I took it. I realize about 20 minutes later the thing that was troubling me was no longer affecting my thinking. This is very important for those who don't like thinking or worrying about certain conditions that cause the mind to be anxious.

There is a tendency for many people simply to rush to the doctors or Pharmacist at the first sign of any illness. IN the case of mild anxiety or panic attacks the natural remedies for anxiety are often a better option.Many people suffer from stress and anxiety symptoms, for most people they are not long term or serious but they do need to be treated. To learn more about Conquer Anxiety and Panic Attacks

As you'll come to realize, this world is expanding in the commerce world with more herbal and natural remedies for everyday ailments.Anxiety has been plaguing the social life of some people in the United States. This can be caused by a lot of things. It can be from the environment, lack of nutrition or can also be caused by problems in the mind. Some of the lesser anxiety attacks can be cured or treated by fish oil. In fact fish oil is a well known cure for general anxiety disorders. Fish oil not only helps the brain, it helps our skin also. This is just to show you how powerful natural remedies are when battling different types of ailments of the mind. But how about powerful anxiety attacks and disorders that cannot be cured by fish oil?

Many anxiety disorder sufferers report they feel much more anxious after consuming large amounts of alcohol. Consequently, this points to reducing the consumption of alcohol as being an extremely effective way to reduce the anxiety, but in fact, it may have limited effect. If you are a casual, occasional drinker then cutting back the amount of alcohol consumption will do very little to reduce the anxiety. This treatment solution is more effective for sufferers who routinely consume a greater amount of alcohol than occasionally on social occasions.

One of the best natural remedies that treat anxiety that I used and continue to use is SocialFear Relief. This natural herbal remedy provides a lot of benefits such relief from anxiety attacks related to social fear. It also calms the nerves, and provide lasting relief. A lot of people who bought this also uses this for public speaking and stage fright. This is a great natural herbal remedy for such tasks. Mental fear is easy to conquer with this natural herbal remedy. We need to keep in mind that this product is one of the best in treating anxiety but we also should keep in mind that proper nutrition and well being can keep anxiety away for a long time.

A natural ingredient for anxiety is Gelsemium. Gelsemium is great for people that do not like to speak in public but are forced to because they are either ordered or have to because of work or studies. This is also a great ingredient to calm the nerves in exams and tests. With this natural homeopathic ingredient, people are able to conquer stage fright, and public speaking easily. Gelsemium is a well known natural homeopathic ingredient that is used by many people and herbalists to treat anxiety disorders and attacks due to social fear.

Another popular home remedy for anxiety disorder is going for walks. It changes the mental disposition by distracting the anxious thoughts and focusing on the walking and the walking environment. Walking allows you proceed at a comfortable pace and enjoy the surroundings as you choose. This distraction can help redirect your thoughts to matters other than those that may be causing the anxiety.While it may take some time and effort to discover a method that works well to alleviate your anxiety levels, the natural solutions for anxiety treatment are enjoyed by many sufferers. The avoidance of harsh medications and a greater sense of well-being are two of the end results that are often cited as being the greatest benefits of utilizing natural remedies for anxiety.




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Coping With Stress at University

By Larry D. Holder


The effects of long term stress are not to be taken lightly. Stress can lead to serious physical, as well as mental health problems. Managing our stress levels is very important if we wish to remain happy and healthy.Common symptoms of stress include irritability, muscular tension, inability to concentrate and a wide variety of physical reactions, such as headaches and increased blood pressure and heart rate. Long term stress can also lower our immune systems, which consequently increases our chanced of picking up illnesses and diseases. Many experts even believe that this can lead to increased risks of cancer and heart diseases.

A person suffering from stress can start using the more emotional parts of the brain, shutting down the more logical side of the brain. This has the effect of lowering your intelligence whilst in this state, and effecting our judgment. It can affect performance at work, and our personal relationships.We all have an Ultradian Rhythm, which is a 90-120 minute cycle of stress and relaxation. The relaxation dips are usually around 90 minutes apart. This is when your mind and body is telling you to slow down and relax. Typically you may find yourself daydreaming, which is a natural form of meditation and self hypnosis. Some people instead choose to carry out addictive behavior instead, such as drinking, drugs, and smoking.

For students living in expensive cities like London, who don't receive financial help from their families, part-time work is the only option to keep their heads above water. The problems that arise from this burden can have a domino effect. Having to juggle the responsibility of a job, stay committed to a degree, have a healthy social life and find time to rest can add to the original source of stress.Everyone has different levels of stress tolerability. It is linked to your personality, diet, emotional maturity and up-bringing. We have different methods of dealing with stress too. Some one who is more prone to stress and anxiety may have more trouble dealing with it. It is common to try to avoid the source of the problem and use something else to mask it.

For example, a student who has being suffering financially may take on a part time job in a bar to help pay the rent. This brings a new realm into the student's life; they are meeting new people with different focuses and pastimes. Some of these will be beneficial to the student but there is also the chance that these new people will cause more of a distraction from the students main focus; the degree. Not only this, the job will take over time in the student's life that should be used for socializing, resting or studying.

As mentioned above, when there is a pressing concern; an essay deadline for instance, it is quite natural for a stressed person to use avoidance as a coping mechanism. In the case of a student with less time on their hands, the essay ignored but the stress of it will continue to prey on the students mind. It seems easier to avoid doing the university work than to attempt it and fail.There are two factors here that are diminishing the students self esteem, the pressure to afford to be at university and the pressure to achieve what should be achievable whilst suffering from fear of failure that has been induced by the financial stress, lack of rest and general chaotic lifestyle that a poor student has to endure.

The first letter is "R". "R" stands for Recognize. We must first recognize the stress before we can cope with stress. Once you recognize the stress try writing what you are stressed about down on paper. This is a way to vent and analyze a better way to go about your situation. Also, some people just simply find writing very relaxing and it helps calm their nerves.The second letter is the letter "E". "E" stands for Exercise. Incorporate exercise into your life. Make it a daily routine. Set aside time to exercise because it is simply good for you, and it will help keep your mind off your worries. If you can learn to make a routine out of it, then you can start building onto that routine and get more organized. In time, you will be less overwhelmed and enjoy having a healthy routine.

Stress factors, job specifications and situations may vary but stress is fundamentally an instinctive physiological and psychological reaction. Stress is based on the "fight-or-flight" instinct reaction to danger or perceived danger. However, even without actual danger stress reactions still occur and usually lead to health-related problems if not properly managed.

Many of the debilitating and chronic diseases that plague humans today can be directly attributed to recurring stress reactions. Diabetes mellitus, cardiovascular diseases and cancer are just some of the serious illnesses that could be prevented with the help of stress management.

Now, the fifth letter is "X". "X" will stand for Xtra sleep. Everyone needs proper sleep for energy. Are you not getting enough sleep? Are you staying out all night? Or are you staying up late? Then you need extra sleep. The best way to get the sleep you need is to have a schedule and stick with it. Go to bed at a decent time. When you develop a routine you will notice you have plenty of time during the day to do things. In the end you will be less frustrated when you get the sleep you needed.On the other hand, not all stress is bad. What I have been referring to is bad stress or what is called distress. But, there is such a thing as good stress. Good stress is stress that comes from excitement or adrenalin and can be very beneficial.

Relaxation - When the situation becomes too stressful, simple deep breath exercise can help. It can increase blood oxidation and improve circulation. Relaxation techniques do not need to be expensive or complicated. Finding a quiet place at the office where one can collect composure, for instance, can help in relaxation. Listening to soft music may also provide some relief.Efficiency - Being organized and highly efficient at work can help employees coping with stress simply because the piling up of tasks will be avoided. Accomplishing the required tasks will also provide some sense of accomplishment. Efficiency at work can be achieved by eliminating procrastinations and by having well-defined daily plans.Social skills - People who are friendly and easy to like are less likely to experience stress due to uncooperative and rude co-workers, including bosses. Developing good social skills can also help employees move up in the corporate ladder and be given leadership responsibilities. Social skills are oftentimes more valuable than technical skills especially when it comes to large organizations.




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Best Motivational Quotes From Oprah Winfrey to Start Your Day

By Ronald M. Dickson


Do you feel uninspired lately? Do you feel like going to work or to school is a total chore? Are you worried about doing something? Are you feeling unhappy again?Negative thinking has a way of dragging us into inactivity and depression. When we start thinking and entertaining those sample questions, it will eventually become a habit. Positive thinking is the only way that we can get ourselves out of a sticky situation. If we want to become a healthy, happy, and productive individual we need to constantly remind ourselves that a positive disposition is the way to go.

The thing to remember is that it's a conscious effort on your part. You have to remember that happiness is a choice. So every day is an opportunity for you to exercise an optimistic personality. You'll be amazed at how it will naturally become a habit. One of the most crucial parts of our daily routine is waking up in the morning. This is the time when you set up your mood for the entire day. Some people take time to eat their breakfast or drink their coffee to prepare them for a fruitful day ahead. Some people take sometime alone and meditate as a form of cleansing and relaxation. This time try to incorporate motivational and success quotations to your daily routine. Not only are inspirational quotes accessible but they also make great daily mantras for you stay focused on your goals.

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought." -Budha Whatever we are is the result of our thought. All the achievement and success is the result of our attitude and our power of thinking. All the miracles take place in mind, so think high and work hard. Do not take rest until you achieve your goals.

Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.I was raised to believe that excellence is the best deterrent to racism or sexism. And that's how I operate my life.So go ahead. Fall down. The world looks different from the ground.

That's when it's time to make the same 'mistake'...twice!"Determination has no greater force than in the deep seated need for conquest " .Hey -- if life were truly so 'impossible' and tough,you would have 'given up' by now -- wouldn't you!But you haven't And in the back of your mind, there's still the desire that things, and you, can change -the hope that they will, and the willingness to do what you can so they will .What do you think this tells you about life, and you?!"Don't ever give up hope.But continue to believe in who you are, what you are, and what you have;That's how you keep your chances...alive!"

Motivation can move mountains. The power of the human mind, and its superiority over the physical body, has long been proven. The human race is said to be the most superior among all of God's creation. Over time humans have learned to control the mind. We have strived to reach our ambitions and goals. Yet there are times that we tend to get off track from our purpose and meaning. This is only natural because humans go through highs and lows over time.Significance of Motivational Quotes.Surely you have noticed that when you begin to feel low or depressed, it can affect your productivity and output. Your efficiency tends to suffer, and ultimately your enthusiasm wanes. This is when you need some motivation to get you back on your feet. One great way to increase your enthusiasm is to read motivational quotes. Just the simple practice of reading motivational quotes can help you in ways that you never imagined before.

Motivational quotes are usually written or spoken by famous personalities from different walks of life. These quotes have come from religious texts, philosophical scriptures, or even from political figures and influential business personalities throughout time. Good quotes motivate and inspire us in our daily lives. They enable us to gain the confidence that is sometimes lacking within ourselves. The wisdom you gain is something that you can treasure forever.How do you make maximum use of motivational quotes? One great way to use motivational quotes is to help you develop a more positive and optimistic approach toward your life. We can easily find great quotes in inspirational books, biographies, in movies and from motivational speakers. These sources are great tools and opportunities for changing your outlook and boosting your self-confidence.

"The developing oak tree does not feign from the thunder and lighting,or from the intense wind and rainstorms .It uses and allows these elements to shape and mold its very character,its resiliency, and further cultivate its evolving strength .For ultimately the oak tree knows it will continue to grow - bigger and stronger.And in large part, through the influence and impact of the elements it faces ultimately it will become Mighty.Then, in the midst of any element, it has no fear or reservation.it knows it can withstand - and stay strong and immovable .in relation to any force of nature that might project itself upon it .It remains an individual, with its own unique power and capacity to face up.brace up, and stand indomitably strong in the face of any and every element.It views not the elements as its 'enemy' or 'oppressor', but as the molders and shapers




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