Why Am I So Unhappy With Myself All The Time

By Charles Ross


There are many reasons people struggle with unhappiness. In most cases, folks are not even sure of what happiness is. They may think that there is always something better to what they have in their lives. Everyone asks at some point, the question, why am I so unhappy with myself. However, it can be something temporary. Of course, it is something to take note of.

Happiness is difficult to define because this is not something that you will feel all the time. There are times when you feel down in the dumps. Other times, you are going to be in a good mood. However, there will be extreme cases, where you will be in more of a depressed state of mind. If this continues to go on for longer than two weeks, then something needs to be done about it.

When you have a low confidence, you won't be very happy with yourself. You won't be thinking that you can achieve a lot in your life. You may have failed a lot in life. It can lead to negative emotions. It may relate to the way in which you see yourself on a physical note. People may find that they are too fat or too thin. They don't approve of their looks or their figure. It can go on and on.

It can be difficult to face your fears, especially when you have been blocking these emotions out for a number of years. When something traumatic has happened in your life, it is natural for you to not want to talk about this. However, as time goes by, you will want to find a way to wake up feeling that you are going to be okay for the rest of the day.

This is why it is important to talk about what you is on your mind. Often, people have not been able to express themselves openly before. It will have affected them since they would have bottled up these feelings. This is obviously unhealthy because it can lead to all sorts of other problems.

Continuing with this sort of lifestyle where you begin to escape from your unhappy emotions and feelings and develop addictions, can cause so many other problems. Eventually, other psychological problems will develop as well. Once you come down from your high, you will be in the same position where you feel alone, overwhelmed and stuck in that place.

Learning to feel is important, instead of simply running away. Of course, one can understand why the person will want to escape. It is easier to do this because facing your fears is never easy. However, when you are working with a therapist who offers this kind of support, it is easier to achieve your goals.

It is a process that people find to be fearful and often they will want to give up. There are times when they will be depressed because of what comes out during this time. However, this is not necessarily a bad thing because it challenges you and you will then become stronger.




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