Sometimes You Have To Learn The Hard Way

By James Edward


Very popular now is the acronym, which is flexibly used as an expression, "YOLO" which means, "you only live once". It is analogous to "Be merry, for tomorrow you die." It creates a shout out that every person should do everything he likes. For the modern generation, it is engaging in all sorts of activity and by "all" means encompassing even harmful and immoral doings. Some are even all out and proud to tell their activities in social media sites; probably feeling "cool" or "strong" or "liberated" or "mature" that they are living life to the fullest. Are they? Really?

I have my reasonable share of filthy stories. Getting drunk almost every evening, finishing a pack of cigarettes just for an hour or two, sleeping with different guys three months after the other along with my list could just the grimace on your face might stay longer than usual so I am nice and stop revealing. Back then, when I was doing these things, I thought they offer me happiness and satisfaction. How can I feel otherwise if each and every time I get intoxicated with alcohol I find myself light-headed and laughter would seem unstoppable? If every time My partner and i puff in and away it gives me a restful, tingling sensation? If each and every time we move, clich as it might sound, I reach bliss?

But I have realized that happiness takes a different approach from joy and that satisfaction takes a different approach from contentment. Happiness is dependent with events, things and individuals, which at times are usually trifling. Joy is deep-rooted; even from the absence of events, things and individuals; it stays in the center and provides peace. Satisfaction is fleeting since it revolves with triumphs along with accomplishments only. Contentment dwells whether or not we are faced along with adversities, sadness and failure and it keeps us cheerful no matter what circumstance we are going through.

The things I does before provide me along with momentary and unsubstantiated "good" feelings. Were the problems resolved? Was I able to flash a genuine smile? Was the emptiness loaded?

We now have unique ideas and also sources of contentment. Even though it can vary greatly and become very subjective coming from one individual to another. However "not what can be granted can be honourable" - with Latin, non omne quod licet honestum est. To have interaction within the unhealthy way of living certainly will keep man corrupted and also busted. Using what We have experienced, I did to master the actual instructions connected with lifestyle in the dirtiest, darkest and a lot unpleasant approach. I really could include avoided the actual miseries connected with lifestyle only include pursued the lifestyle definitely not specialized in the actual gratification connected with bodily feelings. You could potentially also.

A person must be aware and ready for the consequences of his actions, may it be good or bad, right or wrong, moral or immoral. We are weak on our own and thus, susceptible to temptations and wrong doings. Challenge self not to commit same mistakes repeatedly. We should not be callous and stubborn in resisting learning from the consequences of our mistakes.




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