Testing Love With True Lover Tests

By Nancy Gardner


Love is a part of the human experience. It brings with it feelings of bliss and a dreamy outlook. People are so preoccupied with love and being in love that they seek many ways of determining who is meant for them or who is in love with them. True lover tests are among the methods used to pass the time and sometimes to test the mettle of another person's affection.

Infatuation is often confused with true love. This is a problem that people of all ages and social backgrounds face. Admittedly though, it is a dilemma that is usually associated with teenagers who have not yet learnt how to judge characters objectively and gauge their own emotions.

Many long term decisions are taken in haste when individuals are in the throes of young love or infatuation. These decisions have the potential to trigger long lasting negative effects especially if the relationship fails. While these instruments cannot, by themselves, prevent the heartache of failed relationships, they are able to send warning signals when relationships are starting off on weak footing.

Love evaluation instruments are made up of questions. These questions are focused on the behaviors and feelings of the subjects. Each question has a range of, on average, three questions. Each of those questions has a numeric value. When the test is completed, the total score of the questions is tallied. This total is them matched against some categories to determine which one is appropriate. The category contains an overview of the status of the love or the relationship.

Often found in magazine publications, these tests are popular as a means of passing the time. People complete the evaluation sheets in doctor's offices as they wait to be seen. They also complete them as they sit in their seats on a flight or bus traveling from one destination to another.

Many of these true love evaluation systems are now available online. The online versions are often easier to complete. This is because they tend to be interactive enough for the computer to assign the scores for the responses and tally the final score. The evaluation result is then produced automatically. This removes a lot of the work from the task allowing the test taker to attempt as many relationship evaluation instruments as possible.

Relationship experts often use these along with compatibility tests to evaluate the strength of a relationship. In so doing they are able to provide their clients with informed advice and recommendations. This increases the success rate of their services as they are able to make logical predictions about relationships that are likely to grow and those that are likely to fail.

Love is quite unpredictable and uncontrollable. What can be controlled is the way people behave and the decisions they make when they are in the throes of love. Tests that measure the strength of a relationship and the connection between two people help to provide them with a rational evaluation, which in turn helps them to make better decisions.




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