Incorporating The Results Of True Love Tests Into Your Life Planning Process

By Nancy Gardner


The answers you give to the questions posed in magazines or on the worldwide web about romance reveal your inner thoughts about your partner. It is clear that these true love tests are entertaining. They can also give some clues on whether the two of you are well suited for a lengthy relationship.

There are many reasons to try to find a life partner. Putting an end to loneliness is an obvious one. Also, studies show that people who live together in committed relationships tend to be healthier than those who live alone.

Given this fact, you would be well advised to realize that a quiz on compatibility may produce results that are superficial compared to what you need to know to figure out if your current partnership situation will stand the test of time. Sure, it helps to see whether you both enjoy the cinema and fine dining. But these factors alone cannot guarantee you will have longer-term success as a couple.

The extent of your sexual connection is a key factor. A desire for frequent touching and intimacy bodes well for your future together, especially if your heart starts racing at the first sight of your lover on a daily basis. Be warned, however, that relationship specialists say there is a potential for abuse if your partner has a controlling nature or seems to feel a sense of ownership towards you.

Although it may seem counter-intuitive, it is also important to be able to disagree without getting overly emotional. Even the closest couples do not see eye to eye on every single issue that comes up. For a relationship to work, both parties must be confident enough to state their real opinions without raising their voices. They should also be willing to listen fully to one another before making decisions on key topics.

Romance has a better chance to thrive when the people involved have similar standards and beliefs. This applies to such values as truthfulness, fidelity and religious views. Fortunately, you do not need to have identical backgrounds in order to reach a consensus in these areas.

Seeing eye to eye on practical issues relating to money and family size is equally important. Yet surprisingly, many couples wed without having shared their true feelings about these topics. This can lead to breakups down the road, and it is not unusual for couples to seek counseling to save a relationship when one person is a saver and the other a spender, or because they cannot agree on how many children to have.

These problems can be avoided by establishing strong and open communication between partners from the very beginning. You have to be brave in order to accomplish this. You can start by getting together and giving truthful answers to quizzes for lovers, but ultimately, you will have to go far beyond this and reveal the true essence of who you are and what you want out of life.




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