Tips On How To Make Good Friends In Society Today

By Sharron Cantu


Friendships that develop over the years are priceless. But, sometimes people find it difficult to develop relationships because they are not too sure on how to do so. Some people are overly shy or lack the confidence needed to build a relationship. Here are some general tips on how to make good friends that last a lifetime.

When it comes to developing relationships, having the right environment is important. Look for opportunities to meet other people. This can simply be by finding a table with one or two individuals present in the workplace. Sometimes finding a huge crowd is not always the answer. People can usually get to know one another better in a smaller setting.

Clubs or organizations often make a great place to formulate friendships. Sometimes individuals that have absolutely nothing in common become the best of friends. Others may find friends on social networks just by chit-chatting. Church is also a common place for friendships to develop due to sharing the same faith as a point of commonality.

Communication is so very important when starting a friendship. Positive body language along with the willingness to open ones mouth to start a conversation is always key. This can be done simply by asking someone for help. Sometimes giving someone a compliment at a time they may have needed it the most can be a great conversation starter. By the end of the conversation, a formal introduction can be made. The next time the individual is seen, facts from the previous conversation can be brought up inciting interest.

Now that the ice has been broken, initiate a get together. That can be simply getting a bite to eat, or doing something of like interest. It's hard to move into friendship if a person never goes beyond chit chat. This can simply be by saying, "I've got an appointment, but if you ever want to get together, here's my phone number and email address."

One tip on building a friendship is to let things flow smoothly. It's so important to try to rush things or force a relationship. Many times when one rushes into something too soon, it can make the other individual feel uncomfortable and extremely nervous. Sometimes finding the right friend can take some time.

Loyalty is an important part of a lasting relationship. It means being there for an individual when things are going great, and not disappearing when things have taken a turn for the worst. Being trustworthy is also a great quality to have. Someone is trustworthy when they say they're going to do something or be somewhere, and they do just what they say. No one wants to be stood up; especially by someone that has been deemed as a friend. Picking up a phone is always good.

Being someone that is trustworthy as well as a good listener, makes a great recipe for lasting relationship. Being able to share intimate details about personal things in ones life without fear of them being repeated, is priceless. Friendship is a two way process in which there is a give and take from both individuals. It is also a relationship in which everybody wins in the end.




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