In a modern day and age that is littered with unlimited choice, cherish those who go hard for you. Commitment, amongst many other things, is a very rare characteristic.
But why are we so afraid to commit? because we don't want to screw it all up and make ourselves look stupid if we fail.
So rather than making a firm decision about what you want in life, you end up swimming in endless options and choices and never actually make a decision.
All of the choice becomes a paralysis in itself. We have so many options that we can't actually end up making a decision at all.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
But for a mass amount of people...they don't choose this path because they don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing and step on anyones toes. They don't want to make waves and be impolite.
So they play it safe...and by doing that...
They of course avoid getting really hurt...
But kill everything amazing they could experience or be in the process or really diving into something fully. Sure they don't have to face the cuts and scrapes of failure, but they never get to feel elated when they finally do win.
And for most...they only realize this reality until it's far too late.
So you have to actually go for what you want and dive in head first even if there's a big chance it won't work out.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
That's the only way you can make a dream happen. That's the only way you can truly live instead of just survive.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
But why are we so afraid to commit? because we don't want to screw it all up and make ourselves look stupid if we fail.
So rather than making a firm decision about what you want in life, you end up swimming in endless options and choices and never actually make a decision.
All of the choice becomes a paralysis in itself. We have so many options that we can't actually end up making a decision at all.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
But for a mass amount of people...they don't choose this path because they don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing and step on anyones toes. They don't want to make waves and be impolite.
So they play it safe...and by doing that...
They of course avoid getting really hurt...
But kill everything amazing they could experience or be in the process or really diving into something fully. Sure they don't have to face the cuts and scrapes of failure, but they never get to feel elated when they finally do win.
And for most...they only realize this reality until it's far too late.
So you have to actually go for what you want and dive in head first even if there's a big chance it won't work out.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
That's the only way you can make a dream happen. That's the only way you can truly live instead of just survive.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
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