Where does confidence come from? Is it something that you are just born with or can we create confidence over time? Yes, some people just seem to have it. But as someone who had it, lost it entirely, and had to build it all back from scratch, I'm going to say that you can do some pretty amazing things with building some iron faith in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just desire some more because you know how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that almost all people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the bigger things become even more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the tiny things that actually set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take the time to deeply focus on the feasible measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
A lot of people get put off when they try something big in life and fail. Actually most folks will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some serious momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over and over again until you get it right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you need to sweat the little stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just desire some more because you know how much it would aid you with making decisions. But really, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of enduring confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that almost all people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You actually begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you really nail the little stuff, the bigger things become even more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the tiny things that actually set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take the time to deeply focus on the feasible measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
A lot of people get put off when they try something big in life and fail. Actually most folks will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some serious momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over and over again until you get it right.
Isn't that a far better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of extraordinary things.
But first, you need to sweat the little stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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